This post really resonated with me this week.
For years when I was going through domestic abuse I was trying to change this person. I was convinced that I could give them a better life, help them rebuild themselves into this amazing person.
I helped the individual get a job, I helped them with money, I helped them have nice things, I helped as much as I could.
But it wasn’t good enough.
Why?
Because people do not change. Especially abusers.
It cost me 7 years, the amount of energy. So now, remember, if this sounds like you, slow down, think, stop. You are more important.
Rosiesdva 
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